A Co-Parenting Summer and Holiday Guide for Calgary Families

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Co-Parenting Summer guide

School holidays and long weekends offer kids a welcome break from homework and routines, but for separated or divorced parents, Summer and Holiday School breaks can quickly turn into a scheduling nightmare. Balancing summer camps, family vacations, work commitments, and holiday long weekends requires clear communication and early coordination. 

Whether this is your first season navigating two households or you’re looking to vary an existing schedule, this co-parenting summer and holiday guide for Calgary families will help you plan ahead, prevent misunderstandings, and keep the focus where it belongs: on your children having a memorable summer and holiday breaks. 

Summer Holidays – Start Planning Well Before June

Leaving summer plans until the last day of school is one of the most common triggers for co-parenting disputes. In Alberta, well-drafted separation agreements and court orders typically outline specific notification deadlines for summer holiday requests – often April 1 or May 1. 

Early planning ensures that both parents have equal opportunity to book time off work, reserve campsites, or coordinate out-of-province travel without scrambling. Establishing your summer schedule early gives children predictability and time to look forward to their plans. 

Choose a Schedule Model That Fits Your Children’s Ages

Summer schedules often look very different from the regular school year. While week-on/week-off or 2-2-5-5 rotations work well during the school term, summer provides an opportunity for longer, uninterrupted stretches of time with each parent. 

Common vacation structures include: 

  • Two-Week Blocks: Each parent takes two consecutive weeks for extended travel, road trips, or uninterrupted bonding time. 
  • Alternating Two-Week Periods: Splitting July and August into two alternating two-week segments to ensure children don’t go too long without seeing either parent. 
  • Full Month Blocks: More common for older teens or when one parent lives out of province or travels internationally. 

Always match the schedule to your child’s age and developmental needs. Younger children often struggle with being away from either parent several weeks at a time, while teenagers may need flexibility for summer jobs or time with friends. 

Coordinate Vacation Deadlines and Choice Priority

When both parents want the same holiday week—such as the August long weekend or Stampede week—having a clear protocol in your agreement prevents arguments.

Standard agreements typically alternate priority each year:

  • Parent A gets first choice of vacation dates in even-numbered years (e.g., submitting requests by April 1).
  • Parent B gets first choice in odd-numbered years.
  • The parent with second choice must submit their dates by the following deadline (e.g., May 1).

Following a set rotation eliminates ambiguity and prevents one parent from claiming the most desirable summer weeks year after year.

Handle Travel Consent and Documentation Early

If your summer plans involve travelling outside of Alberta or leaving Canada, international border authorities require specific documentation for minors travelling with one parent.

Make sure you address these travel requirements well in advance:

  • Travel Consent Letters: A notarized travel consent letter signed by the non-travelling parent confirming travel dates, flight numbers, and destinations.
  • Passports and Vital Statistics: Confirmation of which parent holds the child’s passport and birth certificate, and when those documents will be handed over.
  • Detailed Itineraries: Providing emergency contact numbers, flight details, and lodging addresses at least 14 to 30 days prior to departure.

Manage Camps and Section 7 Expenses

Summer day camps and childcare are often necessary while parents work, but they also introduce extra financial considerations.

In Alberta, work-related childcare or specialized summer programs often qualify as Section 7 special or extraordinary expenses under the Child Support Guidelines. These costs are typically shared in proportion to each parent’s gross income.

Before enrolling a child in an expensive camp, discuss the program and the cost with the other parent. Unilaterally registering a child and expecting reimbursement later is a frequent source of contention that can easily be avoided with upfront agreement.

Update Your Parenting Plan for Peace of Mind

Summer should be a season of fun and relaxation for your children, not conflict between two homes. If your current parenting order or agreement is unclear, lacks summer vacation clauses, or no longer fits your family’s routine, updating it proactively can save you stress and costly legal disputes later.

Contact Colborne Allyjan Law today to book a consultation and review your parenting arrangements or orders with our experienced Calgary family lawyers.